Many a times people ask a girl what is her ideal husband? Apart from "tall, dark and handsome" as so often perpetrated by girlie magazines and Mills n Boons, you don't exactly have the right words to describe what you think is ideal....it's there at the back of your mind but you sumhow can't find the words for it .. either out of shyness (haha) or uncertainty if what you think is ideal is perhaps just a figment of your overactive imagination and too many romance novels...

Anyway I got this off someone's blog who in turn got it off sumone else's blog.... whom I suspect also ripped it off sumone else's ...which I think succinctly describes what I'm looking for in a husband ....


"I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problems being submissive... he just has to be worthy."